a funeral is supposed to be about the dead person, and for those closest to the dead person. to use it as an excuse to proselytize the people who came to the memorial while only briefly mentioning the dead person at all is repugnant. and to define the dead person almost exclusively by her handicap the few times you mention her is obscene.
"raise your hand if you are ready to be born again in jesus!"
yeah. how 'bout if i raise my hand and explain some basic ethical concepts to the nice religious people, like BEING RESPECTFUL ENOUGH OF THE DECEASED TO TREAT HER LIKE A REAL PERSON, AND NOT TURNING HER MEMORIAL INTO A MARKETING CAMPAIGN.